Aren't "vacations" supposed to be relaxing? This was far from it!
We started our trek with a couple stops in northern Arizona for Todd to make some sales calls for his "other" job. (Yep, he's a two-timer!) Because of those stops, we only got as far as Milan, NM for the night. However, this is where my good friend and artist extroidinaire, Donna, now lives. She very graciously, and unexpectedly, took us in for the night. We were able to see their new log home, enjoy the view, and snooze with the windows open, letting in the cool night air. Thanks, Donna!
After a late start on Saturday (we were enjoying our time with Donna too much) we drove for about 12 hours, getting to my brother's house near midnight. The next few days were filled with shopping (I still needed a dress for the wedding), doing stuff around the house (Todd is a handy guy to have around), shopping some more (food for the rehearsal dinner), playing cards and table games, etc. One of the highlights was being in on a surprise bachelor party for Doug on Sunday night. We convinced him that we were kidnapping his son, Adam, for a surprise birthday party at the community pool (where Adam's wife, Debbie, and my youngest nephew, Daniel, are both lifeguards). When he arrived, he looked around and realized that the group of friends were his own, not Adam's. hee hee! I love a good surprise! Holly (the bride), Debbie, and I crashed the party after the initial festivities were done....everyone seemed to be having a great time!
Of course, the big event for Todd & me was planning, preparing, and serving the rehearsal dinner (for 75-85 people...we're not sure exactly how many there were in the end). Todd & I spent all afternoon in Wichita on Thursday shopping at Sam's Club for ingredients. We had taken a couple of coolers along with us but quickly realized that we needed to supplement them with some cheapo styrofoam containers from the grocery store. It was pretty hot that day (94 degrees) and it was a full hour's drive back to Doug's town. Our car was packed with food! We started the meat cooking in huge roasters (like crockpots on steriods) and they slow roasted all through Thursday night and into Friday morning. On Friday morning, we got out to the church pretty early and started in on our meal.
I have to say this: Todd & I work together incredibly well. From the early days of our marriage, we have done lots of projects together (home improvement, groups over for dinner, children's church, etc) and we always do well together. Not all couples do, so we consider ourselves blessed that we do. In fact, without having our history of successful projects in the past, I'm not sure we would have had the courage to start our own business together. But I digress...
Todd immediately started chopping onions, tomatoes, chilies, etc, for the pico de gallo and salsa. He's an expert chopper. But I'm the expert taste-tester! After he does the basics, I'm the one who adds the critical ingredients that determine the overall flavor and temperature (hotness) of the salsa. And it was such a chore to take chip after chip and dip it into that fresh salsa to make sure the mix was just right! Here's what the salsa looked like after all the tweaking (all two gallons of it):
Mmmm! I have to admit, I really do like my salsa! But we made this batch a little on the mild side...afterall, we were serving midwesterners this time! (the leftovers are in Kansas...rats!)
While he was doing all the chopping, I was working on the Not-Fried Fried Ice Cream. I had hoped for an easy recipe for Fried Ice Cream, but I certainly wasn't about to deep fry all of those servings at the last minute! I found a simpler version on-line, tried it out at home before we left, and it was amazingly similar to the real thing. However, "easier" does not necessarily mean "faster". I spent several hours scooping ice cream, freezing, making the crunchy stuff, rolling the scoops in the crunchies, re-freezing, etc. If I ever do it for a large group like that again, I'll do it several days in advance.
After we had all of the main prep stuff done, we went back to the house, took showers, changed clothes, and then right back to the church we went for the final preparations. At this point we had 3 helpers, friends of Doug's that weren't involved with the rehearsal itself. And it was at this point that it all became a blur! Somehow we ended up with a full salsa bar for appetizers (chips, salsa, pico de gallo, guacamole, sliced jalepenos, chopped cilantro, nacho dip), plus all of the main course (beef & chicken burritos & tacos, rice, refried beans, black beans, and all of the accoutrements), then the fried ice cream and flan for desert (I made 4 pans of flan that afternoon), lemonade & iced tea to drink. I'm told that it all tasted good, but other than taste-testing the salsa & guacamole, I only had one shredded beef taco. Even though by then I was practically starving (no lunch that day), there's just something about eating food you've been smelling all day long. It tends to lose its appeal.
And since we were in the kitchen most of the time, we didn't get to mingle with the relatives like I'd hoped. But all in all, it was a great evening, lots of fun, and everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. And no, I don't have pictures of all the food, or the serving table, or anything else from the rehearsal dinner. I got so involved with it all that I totally forgot to take pictures other than the salsa prep.
Stay tuned for my wedding report!